Elder Robert D. Hales was born in New York City in August of 1932. He was raised by loving parents who taught him the gospel and lived it. He spent a lot of time in Utah with his Grandparents and other relatives and so had experience on both coasts. As a young married man, Elder Hales served in the air force as a pilot. His squadron had the motto of “Return with Honor” stamped on each jet. They wanted to do their best to complete every mission and come home, not just safely, but knowing they did everything they could. It has become a motto for his life–so much so, that he has recently written the book, Return: Four Phases of Our Mortal Journey Home.
Together with his wife, Mary, Elder Hales has always gone willingly to serve where the Lord needed him. He learned as a young man to put himself in the Lord’s hands and then the difficulties he might be having would work themselves out. Along with their two sons, Elder Hales and his wife have lived all over the world and have been enriched by living in foreign countries. He has learned from his leaders as well.
Elder Hales loved baseball and was the pitcher for his high school team. After a streak of bad games, he was ready to quit, but his coach made some suggestions of what he could do to fix the problem. Elder Hales listened and learned. When he was a deacon, he learned from his bishop to treat all aspects of the sacrament with respect and reverence. He and the other deacons would climb up on stage and put the trays away and then jump down off the stage and repeat the process. His bishop caught him mid-flight and told him that as Deacon’s president he should set the example and be reverent when dealing with the sacrament, even something as simple as cleaning up afterwards.
He was called as an apostle on April 7, 1994 and has served faithfully in the many assignments he’s had since. Integrity and honor are still paramount to him. He said, “We come to earth to undergo testing. Through faithful obedience and enduring to the end, we can one day return with honor back into the presence of our Heavenly Father and his son Jesus Christ.” We too can follow his example and do everything we can to live so that we can return to live with our Heavenly Father. No matter where he’s asked to labor, Elder Hales will continue to serve and return with honor. To learn more about this book, click here.