This past Sunday, CBS aired the newest Hallmark Hall of Fame movie. It was about Bill and Lois Wilson, a couple who co-founded Alcoholics Anonymous and Al-Anon. These are support groups for recovering alcoholics and their loved ones. As I watched this touching film, it struck me how much support helps us get through whatever trials we may face in life.
These days there are support groups for just about everything, but what if you’re not struggling with something that comes with an official group? I have formed my own support group of friends and we get together once a month and just talk, catch up on each other’s lives and share our burdens. We come from all different situations and stages of life and yet it doesn’t matter. In those few hours each month we gain strength and support from each other and our burdens seem just a little lighter. It also helps put our troubles in perspective and gives us a chance to forget ourselves and help each other.
We, as members of the Church, also have another support system. We have our ward families. There are Home and Visiting Teachers, Church Leaders and just other members who offer support and assistance. There is also one more source of support. We have Jesus Christ and Heavenly Father. Sometimes They are the only ones who understand what we are going through. Alma 7:11-12 tells us that Jesus took upon Him pains and suffering of all kinds so that He might succor His people. He took all our hurts upon Himself, so He could truly understand how we feel.
The Lord never intended for us to walk the road of life alone. We just have to know where help and support is and then reach out for it. We also need to be available to give help and support to others, whether it’s through Visiting or Home Teaching (it’s the end of the month, have you done yours?) or more informally reaching out to someone in need. Some of us struggle with either giving or receiving help. We need to be open to both, to do as the Savior would do. Even He received strength and support from an angel in the Garden of Gethsemane. And of course He gave constantly. Let us follow in His footsteps on both sides of the support equation.